Transforming Hurt into Hope
By Dave Spruell
It’s that time of year again—when resolute Americans flood the
gyms to work on shedding pounds or getting beach body ready.
It’s a crazy phenomenon our country has embraced, but I do love
a good resolution. Taking care of ourselves physically is important,
and the New Year is a great time to set some new goals. But what about
our emotional and spiritual health?
For many of us, this past year was a challenging year, and we experienced
hurt that we are carrying into the New Year. Maybe it was the loss of
a loved one or some difficult life circumstances. In those moments,
we may feel like God is distant in our life.
Unanswered prayers and dark days can bring
us to a place of despair and questioning Him.
Life can feel unbearable in the middle of the
weight of adversity. But I would like to offer up
a hopeful perspective for the New Year: Maybe
now God is working more than ever in your life.
The Bible tells us to “Consider it pure joy, my
brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials
of many kinds…” (James 1:2) I used to
believe this verse meant that I must force myself
into a joyful attitude when I suffer. If Jesus was
the Suffering Servant, I should push myself into
an attitude of joy. But I have since changed my
mindset toward suffering—not out of willpower,
but out of a new perspective and a new hope.
This new perspective came from watching
all these people filling the local gyms. They show up with ambitions of
losing weight or toning their body; and if you are going to set this kind
of goal, you have to put in the work. We all know the motto, “No pain,
no gain.” So I began to think about my emotional and spiritual life. If I
want to grow and get healthy, I need to put in the work.
The Bible tells us to consider it pure joy when we face trials, but
why? “…because you know that the testing of your faith produces
perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be
mature and complete, not lacking anything.” (James 1:3-4) If
God puts you in a trial or through some suffering, you must stand up
in the middle of that pain and endure.
Weightlifters know they have to stress a muscle to the limit to
allow it to grow stronger. If you’re going to grow your muscles, you
need to have some resistance. You need some opposition that is
painful and challenging. But as you endure that opposition, your
muscle is strengthened.
Our faith is like that. The more you stress it to the limit, the
stronger it gets. As you stand up in the middle of trials, you build your
ability to handle things. But even more, you build your sturdiness in
God. You see He’s trustworthy. You see that He keeps His promises.
Suffering builds our trust muscles.
Things don’t usually grow on the
mountaintop, but growth happens most often
in the valley. When we see God’s faithfulness in
difficult times, we trust that God is capable and
our faith grows. And as it grows, it builds our
confidence in what God says about our future.
And that’s where our hope comes in. Hope is faith
in the future.
“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and
assurance about what we do not see.” (Hebrews 11:1)
As God builds our faith through suffering, He
increases our hope. And when you carry a lot of
hope, you carry a lot of joy. So much so, that you
can give some of it away. Therefore, make this a
year when you carry hope and joy to others.
So, why do you consider it pure joy when you
face trials of many kinds? Because it means God is working on you.
He’s growing you. He’s building your faith. Though trials and suffering
might make it feel like God has pulled away, quite the opposite is true.
He’s working more than ever in your life. I would never wish suffering
on anyone, but I am grateful for a God who transforms our hurt into a
great hope for the future.